Sunday, October 19, 2008

Zane's First Birthday Party!


Zane's birthday is Wednesday the 22nd but his party was this weekend.  He had a great time with the smash cake as you can tell.  It didn't take long to get a hang of it.  He wasn't quite sure about opening gifts but I'm sure he will figure it out by next year.  And now his is WORN OUT. With family and cousins in town for a couple of days, he had much fun and now some good sleeping.

Wednesday, October 08, 2008

Please Pray

I'm sending out a prayer requests for my friend Carole's son who was in a tragic accident this past weekend. He is an adorable 3 1/2 year old that they brought home from Ethiopia just a few weeks ago. You can visit her blog at http://paul-samuelphillipson.blogspot.com. They are a wonderful family that need much support and prayers right now.

Thursday, October 02, 2008

1/2 way there???

With the latest referral batch, Mike and I have 209 referral days between most recent batch (2/15/06) to our LID (9/12/06). When we started, back in fall of 2006 we had 417 days between the batch and our LID. So mathematically we are half way there. Does that mean time wise we are also half way there? The big question. Either way, I know God has a plan as He did with Zane. But another milestone to mark off, we'll take it! Besides, Zane is keeping us VERY busy. I don't know if I could handle another one right now!!

Sunday, September 14, 2008

2 Year LID

We just pasted our 2 year 'anniversary' of our LID. Who would have known that 2 years into our wait, we still wouldn't have an end in sight. But as I have said before, if it weren't for the crazy long wait for Mia, we would not have Zane. God really knows what he's doing! This 'anniversary' passed with little to no fanfare...not sure if we should celebrate it or ignore it.

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Goodbye Olympics

I feel very torn about the Olympics being over. Most of me is very happy they have finally past - I pray that the theory of the Olympics slowing down referrals is true and we will see a speed up of the pace finally. But a small part of me is kind of sad.   First off, I love sports and I love to see the athletes, especially the ones that are not going home to a pro career, that have spent their lives for the dream of the Olympics, lay it all out there for a once in a lifetime experience.  It is all very moving to me.  I loved watching all the sports and learning about the athletes. But also, I felt closer to China in a weird way watching every night. I so look forward to going to China; of course to meet our daughter but also to see her birth country. I have fallen in love with China over the last couple of years and want to be a part of it.  I have loved the coverage of the Olympics as they also showed the country, the people and places around Beijing.  I am proud of the great Olympics that the Chinese people put on.  But now come on referrals!

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Trip to the Zoo - take 2!


Mike, Zane and I headed to the zoo again (the first trip was when Zane was 4 months old) and it was so much fun! Zane is getting old enough to see the animals and enjoy them.  Mike and Zane feed a giraffe, which was very cool, but the winner was brushing the goats.  Of all the wild beautiful animals, the goats made him laugh the most.  Of course it was the one thing he could touch.  What a great family day!

Mike and Zane at the same spot - what a difference 6 months make!

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

First Haircut

Zane got his first haircut last week. He never lost all his newborn hair and it was beginning to look like a Donald Trump comb over! It looks much better now but he looks so much older - like a little boy instead of a baby! How fast it goes. I can't believe he's already 9 months. Anyway, it was another fun 'first'.

Monday, July 07, 2008

Boating baby too!

Our weekend of firsts continued with Zane's first boating trip.  My parents have a great boat (named Kelly Girl!) and it has created years of wonderful memories for me.  I'm so excited to share that fun and joy for the water and boating with Zane.  He did great - sleeping the entire trip out to our favorite spot, playing non-stop at the beach where we hung out and sleeping the entire way back...just like I did as a baby!  Above is Zane and me just hanging out - it's got to be my favorite picture of the two of us.  Below he is with my mom on the ride back - out cold!

Friday, July 04, 2008

Zane's first 4th!!

I LOVE the 4th of July.  Partly because it's summer, a lot to do with my patiotism for our wonderful country and of course I love fireworks.  A year ago we were in the Keys, our normal 4th vacation spot but this year we stayed home.  Some of that has to do with gas prices (gas for the car is one thing but gas for my dad's boat to go 20 miles offshore to go fishing is another) but also it would be hard to do a lot of our normal "Key's activities", fishing, scuba diving, skiing, with Zane at his age.  I think we'll go next year though.  But I bring it up because one year ago we were in the Keys and drove by Zane Gray Lounge at World Wide Sports, one of our favorite spots, and I said if we would have ever had a son, I really like the name Zane.  Little did we know Zane would enter our lives only 3 1/2 months later!  I still am amazed at how his adoption worked.  God works in amazing ways when it's His timing!  I hope everyone had a great 4th of July!

Friday, June 20, 2008

Still here...

I just realized how long it's been since I have posted!  Life has been pleasantly quiet recently. Zane is doing new things every day, getting very close to crawling, and we continue to pray for Mia and her journey to our family.  I do the math almost every day to try to figure out how long our wait will be and it just gives me a headache!

Today I had my required CPR class for my job but this year I brought my mom along.  She had not done a CPR class for 15 years and now taking care of Zane, we both thought a refresher class was a good idea.  If you have not taken a CPR class in a long time (like since you were in the girl scouts or for high school home economics) it's a good idea to look into it.  Effective CPR can double or even triple a victim's chance of survival.  They make the class much easier than in the old days so don't be intimidated.  If you want to learn more, like where to find a class, go to http://www.americanheart.org/presenter.jhtml?identifier=3011764.

Monday, June 09, 2008

Prevent Infant Drowning

Zane recently completed an infant survival class through Infant Swimming Resource; you may have seen them featured on the "Today Show" a few weeks ago.  I was so impressed by Zane's ability to learn to turn over and float no matter how he "fell" into the water.  My parents have a pool just a few steps out their back door and I feel very strongly about protecting Zane not only by standard pool protections but by making sure he can float until help arrived.  Many friends asked 'how could you do that to him' - actually Zane didn't seem too upset about it but also I feel it's the same as giving him vaccinations - protecting him against danger.  Drowning is the NUMBER ONE cause of accidental death of 1-4 year olds.  If you interested, their website is http://www.infantswim.com. On their website you can enter your zip code to search for an instructor near you.  I encourage you to consider it, especially if you have water nearby.

Monday, May 26, 2008

My beach baby

One of my favorite places in the world is the beach.  We are so lucky to be able to live just a few blocks away, in walking distance.  At half tide, our beach has tidal pools, perfect for a 7 month old to splash about in.  I just love this photo that my mom took.  It's mid-splash and Zane has learned quickly to close his eyes and mouth.  I am still so amazed that this beautiful child is in our lives - heck, IS our life - and playing in the same tidal pools that I played in at his age.  He brings so much joy to the smallest discoveries.

On another note, Happy Memorial Day.  I am so thankful to the men and women that have ever worn a uniform in the service to our country.  I am so thankful for the freedoms that my family and I enjoy.  And of course thank you to all the families that also sacrifice for their loved ones' service.

Sunday, May 11, 2008

Zane's Baptism & MOTHER'S DAY!!!

What a wonderful day!!  Zane was baptized today - a moment I have dreamed about.  So long I have prayed about this day and this beautiful event.  I pray I will be a good example in his faith life. 
And of course it was Mother's Day.  What a wonderful first one!  I am so excited to be a mom to Zane and a mom in general. For so many years this has been a difficult day when my heart longed to have a child.  So with my joy and excitement of my first Mother's Day, I can't help but to think of all the moms-in-waiting out there. I know the pain. Hang in there - God put it in your heart to be a mom and He gave you perseverance as a personal trait, you too will celebrate Mother's Day one day.  It's worth the wait, worth every dark day to get to this moment.

Sunday, April 27, 2008

Zane's first wheels

My mom scored a great buy at a recent garage sale - a child bike trailer for only $10.  Zane loves getting out on the road and I love an alternative to walking the stroller.  We have been touring the neighborhood the last few days and they have been beautiful days here in northeast Florida!   Here he is earlier in the week as he was preparing for his first ride.  I though a trial run around the block would be enough but it turned out to be a hour-plus bike ride.  Since then everyday we have been out on the bike.  A born biker!  

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Did you say cupcake?

I can't believe Zane turns 6 months!!  Mike surprised him (and me) with cupcakes.  Zane seemed to enjoy it and wanted more!  It was so cute to see the discover of something so yummy!  The last 6 months have been the greatest days of our lives.  Every day I thank God for our son.  I have enjoyed every moment - even the sleep deprived ones!  Part of me still can't believe that he is here and he is ours.  He is such an amazing joy!  Thank you Zane for 6 amazing months!!

Thursday, March 27, 2008

It's Official!!!


Last week Mike and I had our final hearing in front of a judge to finalize Zane's adoption.  It was a quick meeting but such a relief.  He is forever and always ours!  I still can't believe it some days that we have a son!  God works in amazing ways to take us down a path that we never expected back when we started our journey for Mia.  I just told someone the other day that from the day we got the call that we were chosen to adopt to today has been shorter than a pregnancy - just over 6 months (and Zane is 5 months old)!  Crazy and wonderful!

Sunday, March 16, 2008

It's Easter time!



Today my mom and I went to the local candy shop where the Easter Bunny was making a stop.  Zane seemed to really like him!  I LOVE being a mom!!  It's so much fun!!  

Monday, March 10, 2008

Finally 2006

I know we are still a loooong way away from our referral date but it's comforting to know that they are finally in 2006, our referral year. For the first time in a long time I feel like we are making progress. Ironically this week also marks 3 anniversaries for us - 2 years since we received our orientation paperwork from CCAI, 1 1/2 years since our LID and 6 months since we found out we were chosen for Zane! I must admit, I thank God for "the wait", thank God for Zane! He really does have a plan and it all happens in His timing!

Sunday, February 17, 2008

FCC Chinese New Year Celebration

Our local FCC group had our CNY celebration this weekend and it was a great event.  It would be so easy to feel down about the wait and not attend but it's such a great shot in the arm of why we are doing this.  The beautiful girls and boys with their families is truly a celebration. Many of the children where celebrating CNY with their "forever families" for the first time this year.  It was great to see them all!   Oh yeah, I sure liked showing off Zane as well!  He was SO cute in his chinese outfit.  

Saturday, February 09, 2008

First Trip to the Zoo

We took advantage of this beautiful Florida day and went to the zoo. I must say Zane didn't seem too impressed but still it was a wonderful family outing. We went to the zoo a year ago for Valinetine's Day so that's part of the reason we decided to go today - an early Valinetine's Day since we'll be working on Thursday. But it was also a day of reflecting that a year ago we knew nothing about Zane entering our lives! It was such a wonderful day to share the zoo with our son!